Are you on any sites that do not pay? If so, what is your reason? I know FaceBook could be one such site. Are there any others?
I started my online socialising at a site called Rediff Q&A until I came across myLot the first paying site. I stopped going to Rediff Q&A not because they were not paying but a lot of rubbish was going on there. As a matter of fact there was a bulk exodus. There was this user called 'stoneheart' who would troll and harass quite a number there.
It was at this site I met a friend from the Uk who visited me here in India. We are still friends.
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